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Jan. 22nd, 2009 09:04 amFandom is not a shiny happy utopia where everyone loves each other and gets along marvelously all the time. There are people you are going to hate. There are people who are going to piss you off. Even the people you do like will annoy you from time to time. It happens to everyone, just like in the real world.
But that is NO excuse for being such a scum-sucking vile cunt that you would try to ruin someone's life and email her family and friends to gleefully inform them of all her dirty little fandom secrets. I know people have done this in the past and it just happened again to someone I happen to like a lot. If this is your idea of fun, grow the fuck up and get a life, you self-satisfied little piece of shit. Fuck you and please get the fuck out of fandom.
eta: I'm screening all comments to this post because the person involved has asked that this not be discussed anymore. I'm leaving the post up, though, because I feel strongly it's something that needs to be said and pointed out. If I ever find out who was responsible, or if I ever discover someone has done something similar, you can bet your asses I'm going to paste that person's name everywhere. I've seen too many instances where someone does the same shitty thing over and over again because nobody called her on it the first time.
But that is NO excuse for being such a scum-sucking vile cunt that you would try to ruin someone's life and email her family and friends to gleefully inform them of all her dirty little fandom secrets. I know people have done this in the past and it just happened again to someone I happen to like a lot. If this is your idea of fun, grow the fuck up and get a life, you self-satisfied little piece of shit. Fuck you and please get the fuck out of fandom.
eta: I'm screening all comments to this post because the person involved has asked that this not be discussed anymore. I'm leaving the post up, though, because I feel strongly it's something that needs to be said and pointed out. If I ever find out who was responsible, or if I ever discover someone has done something similar, you can bet your asses I'm going to paste that person's name everywhere. I've seen too many instances where someone does the same shitty thing over and over again because nobody called her on it the first time.
